A fear-of-failure workbook should translate a feared outcome into questions you can answer, and preserve the questions you cannot. A useful practice does not require predicting that everything will go well.

Practice workbook: Application rejected

Completed fictional example — SAMPLE DATA

This example shows how to fill in the form. It is not a real person’s record, a diagnosis, a validated assessment or a promised outcome. Use your own observations and appropriate professional advice for actual health concerns.

Question or fieldYour entry
Feared outcome?The event proposal might be declined
Checkable requirement?Submit a one-page outline with a budget range
Available attempt?Send the limited draft for preliminary feedback
If rejected?Ask which requirement was not met
Review focus?Assess the stated requirement rather than personal worth

Blank worksheet — copy or print

Copy the form into your own private document or print this page. Replace each “Your entry” cell with your own note; leave anything uncertain clearly marked as unknown. This page does not save or submit your entries.

Question or fieldYour entry
Feared outcome?Your entry
Checkable requirement?Your entry
Available attempt?Your entry
If rejected?Your entry
Review focus?Your entry

Completed example

Question or fieldFictional completed example
Feared outcome?Application rejected
Checkable requirement?Eligibility and deadline
Available attempt?Submit five specified images
If rejected?Request feedback if offered
Review focus?What the submission taught me

Completed fictional example — SAMPLE DATA

This example shows how to fill in the form. It is not a real person’s record, a diagnosis, a validated assessment or a promised outcome. Use your own observations and appropriate professional advice for actual health concerns.

Practice recordYour entry
One chosen attemptSend one short event outline
Evidence I will inspectWhether the coordinator can identify the date and next step
What actually happenedA rough outline was sent; one venue fact remained missing
Constraint that remainsThe venue reply is still needed
Revised next decisionAsk for that fact and schedule a bounded revision

Blank worksheet — copy or print

Copy the form into your own private document or print this page. Replace each “Your entry” cell with your own note; leave anything uncertain clearly marked as unknown. This page does not save or submit your entries.

Practice recordYour entry
One chosen attemptYour entry
Evidence I will inspectYour entry
What actually happenedYour entry
Constraint that remainsYour entry
Revised next decisionYour entry

A worked situation: Application rejected

Fictional example. A maker fears a rejected exhibition application. She checks eligibility, defines a complete submission, and plans what she will do if the answer is no. Rejection remains possible.

Workbook sequence: stakes, attempt, feedback

Session 1: describe the feared outcome and separate a real requirement from a predicted verdict. Session 2: choose an affordable attempt with a suitable review route. Session 3: record what actually happened and what remains unknown. Session 4: revise the next attempt using feedback. Keep significant medical, legal, or financial decisions outside a hurry-up exercise.

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