A reason identifies a relevant constraint; an excuse, in EGO's model, uses an explanation to cancel an action that remains available. The difference needs evidence, because a real barrier does not become fictional when somebody dislikes it.

Compare the operations, not a score

Question or fieldFictional completed example
Constraint?Broken laptop
Blocked action?Export design file
Available action?Notify the client
Support needed?Device repair
Evidence?Sent update and repair appointment

A worked situation: Broken laptop

Fictional example. A broken laptop prevents exporting a design file but does not necessarily prevent notifying the client by phone. Repairing the machine and communicating the delay are separate available actions.

A reason describes its actual limit

A real constraint can block one route while leaving another available. Record exactly what it blocks, what remains feasible, and what help would change the situation. Kerub’s alibi lens becomes useful at that boundary; it should not erase illness, money, authority, or safety constraints. A sympathetic explanation and an accurate next step can coexist.

The relevant book lens: The Alibi of Circumstances

Where the comparison stops

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