Avoidance describes behavior that moves away from a task, situation, or experience. Declining a task may be a deliberate choice; postponing it may be necessary. Determine what the behavior does before assuming it is avoidance.

A worked situation: Reorganizing repair photos

Fictional example. A tenant delays a landlord call while waiting for a repair photograph. That delay differs from repeatedly reorganizing photos to postpone a call whose necessary information is already available.

Work through these questions: Reorganizing repair photos

Question or fieldFictional completed example
Behavior?Reorganizing repair photos
Task displaced?Calling the landlord
Necessary input?One clear photograph
Current payoff hypothesis?Avoiding an awkward conversation
Available step?Send the photograph and question

Avoidance is identified by what the substitute displaces

The same activity can be necessary in one episode and a substitute in another. Cleaning a desk before a spill-sensitive task has a purpose; reorganizing it instead of sending a ready reply may leave the chosen task untouched. Record the displaced action and the real dependency. The observation does not prove a hidden motive or a disorder.

A relevant author lens: Mental Masturbation

The limits of an ordinary example

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